Thursday, May 31, 2007

"Love Advice" or "Love Coach" caption

I'm tired of people thinking "You teach Kung Fu?" when they first see my logo. I want to add a caption above or below the company name that says "Love Advice" or "Love Coaching" or "Little Love Coach." Which caption do you like?

I recently read an article that talked about being the expert. People buy my Study Kits and Coaching because I'm an expert at love advice. I want to make that expertise more pronounced in the logo. Which words convey that expertise to you the clearest?

Leave a comment below, and let me know!!!
Thanks,
Mark

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Friday, May 25, 2007

The Introvert's Guide to Flirting

1. Follow your Friends
If you are like most introverts that I know, you are friends with extroverts. That means your friends have lots of single friends that you could meet. A blind date would be a great way to meet them. If you're uncomfortable with blind dates, then ask your friends to bring you along next time they go out together. The tag-along is a great way to meet people. It's safe and involves a group of people.

2. Birthday Parties and Weddings
Challenge yourself to step outside your personal boundaries. Most people hate parties because you have to be extroverted there. That's okay. Treat birthday parties and wedding as a test ground for learning to be extroverted. Let strangers come up to you. When they do, make small talk about the weather, the party and your friends. It will silence the awkwardness.

3. Smile
This is crucial part of all the classes I teach. The power of a smile is the secret weapon of any introvert. Most introverts come across rude and snobby, when they are really shy. The remedy for seeming rude is to smile a lot. The smile says that you secretly want romance, and that you are waiting for the right person to come along and smile back.

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Saturday, May 19, 2007

Website organizing

I think I'm going to organize my LKF website into 4 categories: Single, Searching, Seeing Someone and Separating. That's it. Just a thought!

I also wanted to say thanks for being such a great group of friends, clients and people. I love you guys!

Saturday, May 5, 2007

Splatter Dating Singles Event

How would you like to start Splatter Dating right now! Saturday, May 12th, 2007 at Noon marks the first ever Splatter Dating Singles Event.

At these new monthly meetings, you will hear a speaker on a hot singles topic. You will hear material from The Splatter Dating Approach. And you'll network with other singles with a similar passion for knowledge and personal growth.

This first event Splatter Dating Event is FREE! The location is TBD, but you must RSVP. The event is 12-2pm on Saturday May 12th. This event is open to everyone, whether you're single or seeing someone. Tell a friend and we'll see you there on Saturday May 12th!!!

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Friday, May 4, 2007

First Date Tips

People always wonder what to do on a first date. Should you do something cheap or expensive? Should you do something active or passive?

The key to a great first date is that it blends into your current life. Dating should never feel overwhelming or forced. So your first dates should be an activity that already occurs naturally in your life. This exercise will help you figure out some great activities.

1. What do you already do every week?
Your true love (wherever they are right now) is going to be spending a lot of time with you. He is going to go the grocery store with you, shopping with you, and hundreds of activities. Fun things, hard things and easy things are the activities that weave a relationship together. First dates should look like the rest of your life.

Make a list of the things that you would normally do every week. Which of those activities are a little fun and easy to do. Do you visit Starbucks, mountain bike, or love the movies? Choose a first date from that list.

2. What do you want to try for the first time?
Make a list of activities you've always wanted to do. Use a first date as a chance to try out something new. Have you always wanted to go rock-climbing, visit the wine country, or sky-diving? Be courageous. Ask your first date to try something new with you.

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